I heard that you had just been diagnosed with cancer

Dear friends, when you had just been diagnosed with cancer, you may not be able to immediately accept this fact. Even your doctor would think that the inspection reports of other people linked to your name. This "denies the facts" attitude is a kind of self-protection measures, so that your brains have a chance to adjust to face approach. Perhaps you may feel "very angry" because you feel you should not have the disease. Sometimes, you will feel "very depressed" because of this disease will give you and your family a great deal of impact, and you do not know how to face it. Sometimes, you will want to own "isolated", and not let any friends know that you are afraid they will thesis. Even you, with God "bargaining" in the hope he give you a number of years so that you may wish to complete certain. But you must be eventually had to "accept the truth" in the face of it. Such thoughts will occur repeatedly, does not necessarily follow a certain order. Even if you accept the fact, you may still have in front of any state of mind. But the most important thing is that you should have a positive attitude to face. When you to face, you will be able to participate in your health care decisions; you have autonomy, you will not have the feeling at the mercy of others.