With warm, genuine sincerity, and look, and an open mind. A caring, not located in a pre-eminent status, or self-righteous ways to help the patient or his family. When care can put ourselves in the shoes for the sake of patients and their families, he compared them to understand the difficulties and needs. A caring person to have a solid foundation for the emotional and belief, the sound can provide lasting help.
Do not do not deliver. Not only to the patients or their family said: "If you have any need to help local, you can call me." Because the Chinese people has always been relatively subtle and less afraid of others, it is more open to the people will not take the initiative to seek help. If you want to help cancer patients and their families, you can take the initiative to help provide some benefits, such as: transport of patients to see a doctor or treatment, care for their children, provide meals, help laundry, cleaning, sorting yard and other chores . If patients and their families did not help their loved ones, or the patient's family members must work ends meet, they will be happy to accept your offer to help to alleviate the load on their own. If patients or their family needs a lot, you can invite others to participate in Christian ministry.
Caring work should lasting, fixed, and to be patient. Caring work should be implemented, we must make an effort not. In addition to the help of the above benefits, the use of phone, cards, tapes, books, flowers (but not a gift just after treatment, patients with low white blood cell in order to avoid infectious bacteria), can also transfer your caring heart.
Must be sensitive to understanding and be good at observing the patient's condition. By listening, able to understand the voice of the patient or family members, as well as their expressions and words are consistent. Treatment of the patient's physical strength and resistance are very low, so the time to visit not too long, if you fall ill on their own not to visit, lest the germs to cancer patients.
In addition to patients, they also have to pay attention to the reaction of their families and needs. Cancer patients not just a matter, which involved the whole family. Therefore the patient's family members, heart and spiritual needs. You can also support them so that they can be fully committed to caring for the sick. You can use open-ended questions asked about their needs, can provide substantial help.
Must be sensitive to, there must be the principle that the truth with love. If patients or their family do so unreasonable demands, you have to have the courage to say "no." If patients or their family's thoughts or behavior is beyond common sense, you have a principled exhortations. But you should be able to give them the autonomy to make their own decisions and accept the consequences of an open mind.
Of God and the Bible, there is a proper understanding and have a strong confidence. The reason is not only well versed in Christian theology in order to visit and care for cancer patients and their families, but every Christian, "as long as the heart of Saint Christ statue, someone asked you look forward to the hearts of the reason, it is necessary to prepare for regular to gentle reverence to answer everyone's heart. "Generally speaking, of adversity, hardship, healing, life, death, salvation, etc. Some scriptures to understand and prepare for your visit will be helpful.
The proper use of spiritual information. By patients or their family's actual needs, provide suitable Gospel leaflets, booklets, video tapes and other recordings. Do not leave a lot of children spiritual information or the Bible to them. You can according to their spiritual appetite and needs, timely information to take appropriate supply them, or the Word of God to help them.
Not only to preach the gospel only to visit cancer patients and their families. If Christians only to preach the gospel to visit not only saved the cancer patients and their families, but because they do not accept the gospel on the retreat, the case is likely to be closed on their understanding of the Gospel and in the future acceptance of other Christians.
Evangelism is a spiritual battle, we need to have prayer partners with the workers, and relying on the Holy Spirit to act. Initial visits to the best of two hours to travel together, on the one hand can pray with one another, or can serve patients and their families. Christians (especially brothers) to avoid separate visits to the opposite sex, as far as possible together peers.
If the patients died, their families need to care about comfort, not to terminate the work of caring. Best not to say Survivor's needed is honest, natural way to express their grief or their hearts the memory of the deceased. Grief process, the patient's family members have different needs. At this point, they may need or willing to accept help. If the patient's family members returned to normal, caring work frequency can be gradually reduced to a complete end.
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